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a slump

Voices from upstairs, men figuring out this and that. Measuring negotiating planning. Always problems arising in this old old house. Nightmares for the owner, sleepless nights, upset stomach. Decisions to make.

Let sleeping dogs lie, they say. My house was a very sleepy skinny old Borzoi with many things wrong. Undertaking to fix them has brought forth a whole new array of issues. My hair is grey and soon I think my face will be grey too.

However. No choice now but forward. Tomorrow they say there will be sun. That will help; it’s been the greyest fall on record, I understand. Also, a family member recently called to tell me about a cancer diagnosis, that dreaded word: aggressive. Hit me very hard, just when I was feeling raw.

But – two of my oldest friends came for dinner last night, in the rubble – Suzette and Jessica, both of whom have been through renovation hell and were kind and supportive, with great ideas. And then we ate and drank and talked – a lot about aging, how and where will we live, what is happening to us now, how people call us Ma’am and stand for us on the streetcar, and we all, vibrant accomplished working women with lots still to do in this world, can’t understand why.

I stepped heedlessly into this project, a good idea to do a little this and that, and now it’s huge, carnage, massive destruction. I know it will all be worth it; good things have already come – a major clear out, timely discovery of more termites. But right now, all I see is money flying out the door and noise, mess, disruption, to the horizon.

First world problems.

Need to go for a walk.  And then – just to complete my joy – to the dentist.

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