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Wayson in the NYT and a possible memorial for him

I have a mail file on my computer where I’ve saved the most precious emails from or about Wayson. But last night I opened my Trash file and typed “Wayson Choy.” There were 5,329 matches.

From a former student, one of many emails I’ve received about my friend which are now expanding the above file:

I must thank you for introducing me to Wayson, which unexpectedly (to me) led to a truly joyful connection. I feel blessed by his kindness & generosity to include me as a friend. He made himself available to meet with me the times when he could, & provided me with his words of wisdom.
And also many thanks to you that I became part of a small but warm & committed Writing Group – 6 of us who were your students at Ryerson a few years ago continue to meet & spur each other on with our writing. And some of us made it to your wonderful story sharing evenings at Black Swan.
People have been asking about a memorial event for Wayson. It seems the family will hold a private one in the summer and his agent Denise Bukowski will organize a formal one later. But lots of people have contacted me asking about it; people want to celebrate him now. I am thinking of holding an informal “gathering of remembrance” here at my house on a Sunday afternoon in early June. I’ll let you know. 

In the meantime, there was a big article in the NYT. How he would have loved it! And a great photo. 

Yesterday was Anna’s birthday; we had lunch with the boys at Rol San, her favourite Chinese restaurant. Today as her present I’m going to get Eli who’ll be here till tomorrow. She gets a well-deserved break. 

Guess what? It’s grey and gloomy and raining. 



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I began keeping a journal at the age of nine. Nearly fifty years later, I started this online journal, sharing reflections, reviews, updates, and the occasional secret.

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