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A sign for Macca

Several people have asked what my sign in Vancouver actually said to Paul. It took me a long time to come up with the wording, many drafts. I tried things like “You saved my life in Paris. Story in my book,” and “We met in Paris June 1965. I was in the blue dress. Remember?”

Lame. I’m a writer, I said to myself. Come on! How to entice him with only a few words on a bristol board sign?

It came to me at 4 a.m. one morning, and luckily, when I got up, I remembered and wrote it down. At the concert, I saw him read it. His face didn’t change; he did not smile. He spoke in Japanese to the two women in kimonos sitting right next to me, screaming “Pauw! Pauw!” in very high voices. And that was that. I wondered if perhaps my wording reminded him too much of his age. Or perhaps the people in the Sgt. Pepper’s costumes had already been chosen.

Oh well. My sign did not do its job, but I don’t care – I had done mine.

I may deeply regret not getting a ticket to the Hamilton concert in July. But if I’d gone, there’d have been no sign. Just love.



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